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Monday, April 20, 2020

EFFECTIVE TIPS TO SUSTAIN YOUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP


EFFECTIVE TIPS TO SUSTAIN YOUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP 

Meeting someone who ends up being that special someone feels so amazing. Suddenly, your life revolves around this person. You feel a sense of belonging with this person. You seize every opportunity just to be with this person. It's the best feeling in the world, you know.

But then, what happens when your partner has to leave to another city or in some cases to another country?. The truth is , the mere thought of it is heartbreaking , there's this second voice telling you to call it quits, you begin to think of how you can manage the relationship far away from each other. A whole lot of negative thoughts , so many “what if’s” like meeting someone else, being too busy and so on. Only if you could pause for a while , take a deep breath and think, this person has been meeting so many “someone else '' when he or she was close, but they didn't leave you , you are the only one they see. So why should it change now?  Well, I hear you say distance.. Truth yes.

Oftentimes, some have resorted to breaking up with their partner because they can't deal with the reality that their partner is leaving and they wouldn't be able to see them for a long time. They just can't handle it.
Don't think too much, in the next few paragraphs I will let you in on helpful doable tips to help you navigate comfortably through your long distance relationship without feeling alone or being replaced.

Long distance Relationship comes with a whole new experience. Sometimes you feel like you can do it , other times you feel like giving up.it comes with endurance and patience and more understanding, it comes with its unique truck load of problems. Good news is that it can work.
So, here are few tips to take , if you are in, or you are considering entering a long distance relationship:

Dedication
If you are agreeing to go into this. Both of you should be willing to give all it takes to maintain the relationship. It is important that both of you realize that it is not the responsibility of one  but the both of you. If either of you is dedicating more , sacrificing more, then your relationship is about to hit rock bottom.
A healthy long distance relationship is sustained by two dedicated hearts who value what they share.

Communication
I would love to say that this is one of the most effective ways to survive and maintain your long distance relationship. It mothers everything that has to do with Relationship.
Here, what is the communication level existing or should exist between you and your partner, now that they are far away. This is the time the level of communication needs to be increased by 100%. Make communication a priority with your long distant partner. This is the period to talk and text more than often. Because physical presence is missing. Yes , of course  there may be time zone restraint, workload etc. but it is your duty to always keep in touch anyways.
Both of you need to come up with a plan that can suit the both of you. With this plan there's a time to call, text, send mails.. Yes , of course you can surprise your partner with mails. Old fashion is the new fashion..
It's all about communication and understanding.

Trust
No relationship can stand without some level of trust. You have to trust your partner if not for anything, but to have peace of mind. Trust is the bedrock of any relationship, especially a long distance relationship. If you do not trust your partner , the foundation becomes shaky.
Dating someone you don't get to see everyday, you have no choice but to trust them.
Trust that it's only you they want to be with. Trust that nothing can separate the both of you. Trust even when you don't feel like it. When there's no trust , you give room for assumptions. Assumptions have a way of wrapping around our head. Most times, your assumptions are false and end up backfiring.

Bonus Tip:

1.Never get tired of staying connected
Technology has made it very easy for long distance relationship couples. Therefore, make these platforms your friend.

 2.Send a quick snap of you at work and tag it “i miss you”

3.Call each other on video calls

4.Send text messages when they aren't expecting. Etc

These sort of gestures really warms the heart of your partner and shows you really love and care .
Always look forward to when you both will see each other again.

Written by:
Olive Ndulue
+234 806 908 4506


1 comment:

Unknown said...

Interesting and very relatable... Thank .